Comments on: Uzi almost made me cry http://www.onefemalecanuck.com/2006/08/uzi-almost-made-me-cry My motley identities are giving me a wedgie Wed, 01 Feb 2012 15:00:38 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: one female canuck http://www.onefemalecanuck.com/2006/08/uzi-almost-made-me-cry/comment-page-1#comment-1894 one female canuck Mon, 25 Jul 2011 16:23:43 +0000 http://www.onefemalecanuck.com/content/2006/08/uzi-almost-made-me-cry.html#comment-1894 6 Comments: Uzi said... You are very welcome. As a man, I try not to cry often, cuz it goes against what men do. And as I have learnt on this blog, that's just a sissy thing for men to do. And not what some women like at all (wonder who said that). BUT (think J-lo here), your blogs over the last week or so have been deeply moving. They have made sense to me on many levels. And if I did not respond, it was only because I could not have said anything to alleviate your inner quarrels. I understood on some level, the depth of the battles that were waging within you, and I couldn't say anything. Because your words left me knowing what you felt, yet I was unable to put into words what to say to you, I thought about how meaningless my words would be to you. These thoughts just need time in your mind to tumble about, to come to terms with. Which is what you have now, time- to reflect back. I am looking forward to a post at some point when you recap your experience in Lebanon, from the view of someone that went, waged an inner-war and now has seemingly returned to her sanctum, not to mention cafe au laits. As for the comments I made on my blog, you deserved every word, I don't go out on a limb for many i don't know. BUT (J-lo, again) it IS as if I know, which really, is a testament to your writing, not to mention personality. Stay safe Maha. :) Sun Aug 27, 05:10:00 PM Tommy of The Gays said... Uzi, that's such a nice thing to write and now you've gone and made me feel like shit for calling her 'bitch' with love all the time. Maha: All that Uzi said. Great blog by the way Uzi. Tommy of The Gays Wed Aug 30, 08:00:00 AM maria calvo said... That IS a really nice nice thing to say, Uzi. Maha, I've sent you numerous emails and I know that you're not checking at the moment but I love your automatic replies! I hope you got my voicemail, how awesome that you gave us your number!!!!! It's an honor to know you even if we've never met face to face. Hearing your voice was cool. You're not at all what I thought you''d sound like, but that may be because of the nature of the message. All of our love and everything that Uzi wrote. maria Sat Sep 02, 02:55:00 AM just a girl said... Yikhrib beetak ya Uzi, this comment is one of the nicest anyone's written (notwithstanding Tommy, every time he calls me 'bitch'), and you've left me speechless once again. You know, the war that is still being waged inside isn't a very comforting or comfortable one. And there's someone in particular I wish I could reach with everything I have to say, because they were partially responsible for that war because of one mesely comment. Circumstances in Beirut were so god damn messy, and when I saw what Israel had done, and when I sit here and read the news of what they continue to do in Palestine, I am floored. How that translates into understanding and trying trying trying to at the very least sympathise with their history, I don't know. That's why it's been such a struggle for me to put into words what I think I understand, or where I stand politically at this point. Like I said, that wrap up is coming; it sort of has to or else it'll give me an ulcer. And you know what? If you've read this blog long enough > most especially in this last year < you probably know me more than most. I'm frighteningly honest here, and I've become more so over the last year. As for my writing? Meh. It can always improve, but I'm happy you've enjoyed it :o) You get a ton of hugs. Tommy- xo. Maria- I got your voicemail, lol lol lol!!!!!! Why didn't you leave a call back number? Thank you for your kind spoken (& here written) words. I too hope we can meet face to face one day...I just wish we all at least lived in the same country! That would make things slightly easier :) Call me any time you want! xo m Sun Sep 10, 05:43:00 PM Uzi said... AAh.. I didn't realise you had responded on this comment section. Thank you for the hugs. They are always sppreciated, especially in this land of no hugging. Hugs are what made Canada great, and warm. As for the wriitng, yes it can always improve. But I find a humnity in your words, perhaps its the honesty, probably. It just translated so well on a white background. I am allowed to digest and process complicated thoughts put to me like I am speaking to a lifelong friend. And that, I don't usually feel online except here and on emails from my friends. Sat Sep 16, 03:11:00 AM Uzi said... tommy of the gays, Thanks for checking the blog. Come by anytime and you can call me bitch anytime you want. Some people use asshole, but you know, whatever floats your boat :) Sat Sep 16, 03:12:00 AM 6 Comments:
Uzi said…
You are very welcome.

As a man, I try not to cry often, cuz it goes against what men do. And as I have learnt on this blog, that’s just a sissy thing for men to do. And not what some women like at all (wonder who said that).

BUT (think J-lo here), your blogs over the last week or so have been deeply moving. They have made sense to me on many levels. And if I did not respond, it was only because I could not have said anything to alleviate your inner quarrels. I understood on some level, the depth of the battles that were waging within you, and I couldn’t say anything. Because your words left me knowing what you felt, yet I was unable to put into words what to say to you, I thought about how meaningless my words would be to you. These thoughts just need time in your mind to tumble about, to come to terms with. Which is what you have now, time- to reflect back.

I am looking forward to a post at some point when you recap your experience in Lebanon, from the view of someone that went, waged an inner-war and now has seemingly returned to her sanctum, not to mention cafe au laits.

As for the comments I made on my blog, you deserved every word, I don’t go out on a limb for many i don’t know. BUT (J-lo, again) it IS as if I know, which really, is a testament to your writing, not to mention personality.

Stay safe Maha. :)

Sun Aug 27, 05:10:00 PM
Tommy of The Gays said…
Uzi, that’s such a nice thing to write and now you’ve gone and made me feel like shit for calling her ‘bitch’ with love all the time.

Maha: All that Uzi said.

Great blog by the way Uzi.

Tommy of The Gays

Wed Aug 30, 08:00:00 AM
maria calvo said…
That IS a really nice nice thing to say, Uzi.

Maha, I’ve sent you numerous emails and I know that you’re not checking at the moment but I love your automatic replies! I hope you got my voicemail, how awesome that you gave us your number!!!!! It’s an honor to know you even if we’ve never met face to face. Hearing your voice was cool. You’re not at all what I thought you”d sound like, but that may be because of the nature of the message.

All of our love and everything that Uzi wrote.
maria

Sat Sep 02, 02:55:00 AM
just a girl said…
Yikhrib beetak ya Uzi, this comment is one of the nicest anyone’s written (notwithstanding Tommy, every time he calls me ‘bitch’), and you’ve left me speechless once again.

You know, the war that is still being waged inside isn’t a very comforting or comfortable one. And there’s someone in particular I wish I could reach with everything I have to say, because they were partially responsible for that war because of one mesely comment. Circumstances in Beirut were so god damn messy, and when I saw what Israel had done, and when I sit here and read the news of what they continue to do in Palestine, I am floored. How that translates into understanding and trying trying trying to at the very least sympathise with their history, I don’t know. That’s why it’s been such a struggle for me to put into words what I think I understand, or where I stand politically at this point.

Like I said, that wrap up is coming; it sort of has to or else it’ll give me an ulcer.

And you know what? If you’ve read this blog long enough > most especially in this last year < you probably know me more than most. I'm frighteningly honest here, and I've become more so over the last year.

As for my writing? Meh. It can always improve, but I'm happy you've enjoyed it :o )

You get a ton of hugs.

Tommy- xo.

Maria- I got your voicemail, lol lol lol!!!!!! Why didn't you leave a call back number? Thank you for your kind spoken (& here written) words. I too hope we can meet face to face one day…I just wish we all at least lived in the same country! That would make things slightly easier :)

Call me any time you want!

xo
m

Sun Sep 10, 05:43:00 PM
Uzi said…
AAh..

I didn't realise you had responded on this comment section.

Thank you for the hugs. They are always sppreciated, especially in this land of no hugging. Hugs are what made Canada great, and warm.

As for the wriitng, yes it can always improve. But I find a humnity in your words, perhaps its the honesty, probably. It just translated so well on a white background. I am allowed to digest and process complicated thoughts put to me like I am speaking to a lifelong friend. And that, I don't usually feel online except here and on emails from my friends.

Sat Sep 16, 03:11:00 AM
Uzi said…
tommy of the gays,

Thanks for checking the blog. Come by anytime and you can call me bitch anytime you want. Some people use asshole, but you know, whatever floats your boat :)

Sat Sep 16, 03:12:00 AM

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