Within the Quran rests utter indivisibility between faith and good works. (This is a critical point in Islam, and it differentiates religion from secular humanism.)
To grow within Islam, one must nurture and develop both of these aspects within the self. It is perhaps during this most important month for Muslims that one can see the reality of this. Were you to walk through the streets of any Muslim country, you would be met with the following…
Homes have in their front yards placed tables and tables of food, doors opened for anyone who wishes to step in and break fast at that location. There are no questions asked and no fees imposed; no one cares if you are fasting, no one knows how much money you have in your pocket, or what your name is and no one asks if you’re a Muslim.
At all mosques the world over, local Muslim families donate food and drink (or money to this end) to feed those who choose to break fast in the mosque. Although this takes place in all mosques across the globe, it is perhaps in Saudi Arabia felt most profoundly because of the sheer numbers involved. At ‘Masjid Al-Haram’ – where the Kabaa is located – nightly, at least one million Muslims break fast together in the Masjid over dates and milk, then pray maghrib (the 4th prayer of the day) together before they sit together to chat, ending their time together praying isha (the 5th and final prayer of the day).
This serves as only one example of the message of unity in community repeated and so deeply rooted within the message of Islam.
Precisely because we’re not here discussing secular humanism, this then must go hand in hand with faith. For Muslims, this ‘unity’ is the reflection of God Himself. From Him everything comes and to Him everything returns. Every. Single. Thing.(1)
This unity may be better expressed as the ‘Oneness’ of God, within which rests a deeper message for those interested in hearing and reflecting: the Oneness of humankind.
Malcolm X’s penetrating gaze saw and articulated it best: ”During the past eleven days here in the Muslim world, I have eaten from the same plate, drunk from the same glass and slept on the same rug — while praying to the same God — with fellow Muslims, whose eyes were the bluest of blue, whose hair was the blondest of blond, and whose skin was the whitest of white. And in the words and in the actions and in the deeds of the white Muslims, I felt the same sincerity that I felt among the black African Muslims of Nigeria, Sudan and Ghana.”
“We were truly all the same (brothers) — because their belief in one God had removed the white from their minds, the white from their behavior, and the white from their attitude.”
“I could see from this that perhaps if white Americans could accept the Oneness of God, then perhaps too, they could accept in reality the Oneness of Man — and cease to measure, and hinder, and harm others in terms of their differences in color.”
As already mentioned, within the Quran rests the utter indivisibility between faith and good works. Further to this, and important to Muslims (of no consequence to those who are not) is that ”faith should inspire righteous deeds, which, in turn, should nurture a more profound experience of faith, which should incline one to greater acts of goodness, and so on, with each a function of the other, rising in a continuous increase.” (Even Angels Ask, Jeffrey Lang, 35-37.)
As Lang goes on to describe, following are some examples of universally recognized virtuous acts:
Showing compassion. (2:83; 2:215; 69:34)
Being merciful. (90:17)
Forgiving others. (42:37; 45:14; 64:14)
Being just. (4:58; 6:152; 16:90)
Protecting the weak. (4:127; 6:152)
Defending the oppressed. (4:75)
Acknowledging wisdom. (20:114; 22:54)
Being generous. (2:177; 23:60; 30:39)
Being truthful. (3:17; 33:24; 33:35; 49:15)
Being kind. (4:36)
Being peaceful. (8:61; 25:63; 47:35)
Loving others. (19:86)
The one glaringly obvious link between all of them is that in order for us to commit them and grow in virtue, we must bind ourselves – via these acts – to others. Our own sense of self is directly linked to humankind. For a Muslim, humankind is further linked to God. (As stated earlier: Within the Oneness of Him is the Oneness of humanity.)
To understand this more deeply, extend this example to the famed Sufi perspective on love: one does not truly love until they call to their other by calling to themselves.
Essentially, one does not experience the fullness of love until one can see through the eyes of their lover and vice versa. Taken further, that means bringing into one’s own heart the pain and happiness and struggles of their partner. Experiencing love as the Oneness of the two, may be the fullest and deepest way to experience the love shared. No doubt challenging, but the rewards one-thousand fold gratifying.
For those who believe, raise your stakes this month and keep the above list with you – remind yourself to be patient and to make your heart bigger. Do it for yourself, for your faith, and for your community.
The bigger your heart, the warmer your community, the better you will be. Always remember that your relationship to God is empowered and strengthened by your relationship with humanity, and vice versa.
To those who don’t believe, do the same, only for the sake of your brothers and sisters in humanity. Whether or not you believe that God exists, you can not deny that community remains…and community is a reflection of you. Render it healthy and find relief within the space you’ve nurtured.
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(1) So then the obvious question becomes: Why not cut out the middle-man (God)? As with everything, this is an option, obviously. But, for Muslims, the ‘middle-man’ is an inherent part of the equation. I’ll try my best to articulate how Muslims view this particular circumstance:
(a) One has the choice to either
Believe in the existence of God, thereby entering into a relationship with Him
Or
Not believe in His existence, thereby not engaging in that relationship.
(b) As a Muslim, you believe that God exists.
(c) This very belief naturally turns you towards God and makes you party to a relationship with God.
(d) The relationship with God is strengthened by your relationship with humankind, and vice versa.
Whereas a secular humanist would erase God from the above equation, a Muslim chooses to engage in that relationship instead.
The following example will make sense more to a Believer than a non-Believer because it presupposes the existence of God, but I’ll throw it out there anyway: An analogy to the relationship between wo/man and God is the relationship between child and parent.
That both child and parent are, doesn’t necessitate an engaged (if any) relationship. For the relationship to be it’s most successful, neither one of these parties must have their backs turned to the other, but rather they must embrace one another and live out the fullness and potential of the love shared and found within that relationship.
Muslims – at least my understanding of Islam and how I try to live my life – perceive the relationship between themselves and God as precisely this sort of a relationship. Furthermore, Muslims believe that God is always facing each individual, but the choice to reciprocate that rests solely with the individual in question. And as the Quran clearly states, there is no coercion in religion and so the movement to face God and enter into that relationship is one that must be done entirely by the freedom of choice possessed by the individuals themselves (and in fact, interestingly enough: the Quran indicates that most of humankind will turn away from this very relationship).
Originally published 07/09/16.
12 Comments:
Anonymous said…
You have an interesting way of approaching religion. It is a breath of fresh air to see someone acnkolwedge the above differences because it gets old really quickly when either side tries to PROVE they have the right answer. I guess to most people it feels like they’re fighting for their lives
Wed Sep 19, 09:34:00 PM
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Chantal said…
Marvelous post. Going through some major re-examination in my faith, it makes it often difficult for me to find the words when I have to guide my children in understanding and living theirs. Thanks for putting the words in my mouth
Chantal
Wed Sep 19, 10:32:00 PM
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Paul said…
This is a very balanced and reasonable approach. Atheism can itself be a foem of faith- faith in the idea that science can or will explain everything worth explaining; faith in the conviction that there is nothing more than what can be explained ‘rationally’ through science. But in fact there are many important things that can’t be proved. Who can prove scientifically that something is good or just and that something else is not? And yet most of us rely on such judgements in some way.
Thu Sep 20, 10:07:00 AM
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michelle said…
ooh, you’ve given me much to think on. I might be back to pester you and ask about some portion of your examination.
Never as a challenge though, just a curiosity for me.
Thu Sep 20, 11:55:00 AM
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Maria Calvo said…
RED FONT! COOL!!!!
That’s why agnostics are way cooler than atheists. They’ll at least admit they don’t know and so won’t. I like your approach best.
You’re doing a lot of crazy heavy thinking lately!
Maria
Thu Sep 20, 01:40:00 PM
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Colleen said…
This is an excellent post. Like Paul already said, it is very well balanced – I am greatly appreciating all of your insights.
I am going to fast tomorrow, Maha! I am going to try it for a day, so keep me in your prayers
Colleen
Sat Sep 22, 09:43:00 PM
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just a girl said…
MICHELLE — all questions are most welcome. It’s usually them that allow me to figure out my own mind…so please, go ahead and ask.
Don’t be upset if I come back with a simple: I don’t know!
…all I can promise is that I’ll try to answer
Sun Sep 23, 05:49:00 PM
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michelle said…
yay!
I left this for too long before addressing it, but the first thing that popped into my head was the following (which took place between bed time and REM cycle):
in regards to the “creation” aspect of your belief, i was wondering if this was in regards to the natural environment (which I gathered from you saying you are “incapable of creating” though Bob Ross would argue otherwise…teehee!).
because while you see the creation as a kind of proof of something greater, there is proof of how things are created. and while we ourselves cannot create volcanoes (unless angry of course and then our heads turn red and our ears smoke like cartoons) we know how beautiful and inspiring things like mountain ranges and hawaii…and gerry butler…come to be.
i dunno, i guess i’m asking more along the lines of how is it proof that something intangible made all these tangible things? perhaps.
and as an aside, i think you’d get a kick out of a physics course.
Fri Sep 28, 02:57:00 AM
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just a girl said…
YaY! times two!
I’m happy you did this – I was waiting for you to come back – I would’ve responded earlier today but I can’t access my blog from work
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(A) It’s actually with regards to everything. Nature and all else (including humans). Specifically, it’s in reference to the fact that we can’t ‘make’ / ‘create’ / ‘birth’ anything from nothing.
We clone – but we need (is it maybe) DNA from something else in order to clone it. We don’t actually make it from thin air; rather, we need something else that already exists in order to clone that thing.
Take, the simlpest thing and the smallest – an atom, yeah? We can split it and we can view it and learn about it and know it as much as science permits, but we can’t make it from scratch. (You may be able to answer this: can we duplicate it?)
And life form as we know it – giving birth. Not even that is from scratch because it requires existing sperm / existing ovary…
So all we can do is pull items together and make from them something…but the items that we pull together don’t come out of thin air; they are already in existence.
Is that clear – I’m trying to make it understandable, because I think it’s an important point….and I really don’t know if the above makes sense…
Naturally, then, the simple response would be: Just because something is, it doesn’t mean that something else (here: God) created it. It could simply be. Furthermore, if everything needs something to become, then what/who created God?
Re the former: Sure…we’re each free to believe what we choose.
Re the later: I don’t know, but I’ll say one very personal thing here: (1) I don’t think I / human will ever be able to understand what I can not undertake (here: Creation). I can understand engineering and biological function and the process of cloning, but it is – as I sit here and think about it – impossible for me to imagine what can only be described as ‘conjuring’ (even though that denotes magic…); and, (2) To assume that God was created, necessitates that he must have once not existed. It follows from this that He is subject to time constraints as we/humans are – and I don’t think that’s possible, so the question – to me, at least – then becomes moot.
(B) By the way – who is Bob Ross???
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(C) Sigh – Gerry. Yes. Such a beauty still and wears pants so well! ;o)
As for your “i dunno, i guess i’m asking more along the lines of how is it proof that something intangible made all these tangible things? perhaps.”
It’s not at all proof; it’s belief and faith.
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“…and as an aside, i think you’d get a kick out of a physics course.
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…and you, my sweet beautiful Michelle, would love a philosophy course!
xoxoxoxoxo
Maha
P.S. I love discussions such as these so please feel free to engage in them in any way you’d like!
Fri Sep 28, 09:08:00 PM
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michelle said…
oh but i sat through a quarter of philosophy! it made my head hurt and i never got the answers right (which makes me wonder about the curriculum since i’d imagine there isn’t really a “right” answer yeah?
i think i need to print this out and re-read it, so i’ll try to do that soon, but i think i’m starting to see what you are talking about in regards to…well, yeah.
Bob Ross!! OMG! He’s the (now deceased) guy who painted “happy little clouds” on PBS. you should google him! you’ll get a kick out of his hair alone!
Tue Oct 02, 02:17:00 PM
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Nezha said…
Hey, awesome post. I personally am an atheist as i believe science DOES prove that evolution happened, which makes it hard to believe that a God exists. But i really do admire people with faith. LIfe is so much easier that way.
Thu Dec 20, 01:21:00 PM
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Anonymous said…
Uhm……..believing in evolution doesn’t mean that one can’t believe in God. Why wouldn’t you believe in a God that creates in a rational manner?
You’re addressing life from a christian perspective, the idea of creationism. We can still believe in the THEORY of evolution (nothing has been proven, friend) and believe in God.
I dont’ know what I believe about evolution except that it makes me uneasy to think I came from an ape. But then again, life is so much easier that way
Sun Mar 23, 11:37:00 AM
I love this post Maha. Im going to share this with a friend who I think will benefit from this.
xxx
Salaam Ghadeer + Ramadan Mubarak! We are 1/6th of the way through. Hurrah.
Happy this resonated with you; inshallah your friend will enjoy it equally
xxo m
Salaam Alaikum,
What a beautiful post. Jazak Allahu Khayran for sharing your thoughts.
Salaam Safiya.
Thanks for reading and commenting
Ramadaan kareem to you and yours.
5 Comments:
HippieChyck said…
I’ve been reading Utopian Dreams interspersed with other books over the last month. Interestingly enough, while reading this book, I also found myself fasting, spending time focused inwardly and on spirtuality, while also trying to figure out how best to be more giving outwardly. (I’m not Muslim).
In any case, the author of Utopian Dreams is a travel writer and possibly secular humanist. This book is abouth is travels in search of community and his growing belief that the best/most-efficiently run/most successful communities are those based on some sort of faith.
Tobias Jones is his name.
Mon Sep 17, 05:53:00 PM
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Anonymous said…
I’m quite certain I commented on this post? Maybe I dreamed it
I always enjoy reading your works on faith matters because it seems you try to go to such great lengths to be so inclusive. I’ve learned much about Islam from here and I always look forward to reading your work because it so clearly is coming from a woman who loves and cherishes her faith.
I was raised a catholic and left the church when I was quite young. I can’t say that I’ve always been looking for anything to replace it, but I can say that reading about Islam has pushed me to read more. I am among those who read Struggling to Surrender based on your recommendation. I have ordered his latest book Losing My Religion and I look forward to reading it.
I have to admit that before stumbling on to your writing, I judged Islam by what I heard about it in the news. I’ve slowly been re-learning to learn about islam throug it’s teachings and not the way it’s bening prac ticed in some places and by some people.
To hippiechyck. I too am going to be trying to fast for one week in order to challenge myself and use it as a building block for who I am. What were your feelings going about it? Are you planning on doing more of the same?
Thank you,
J
Mon Sep 17, 09:44:00 PM
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Amin said…
There are as many overweight people as malnourished people on the planet (around 800 million). Nice to see that atleast the muslims fast, eat, pray, give alms etc. together.
p.s: !!!SAVE DARFUR!!!
Tue Sep 18, 01:59:00 AM
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HippieChyck said…
anonymous/j – the fasting was kind of an accident, or happy coincidence. i have felt a noticeable sense of calm over the last few weeks while slowing down my life, focusing inwards, and the eating less….perhaps it has added to the slowing of things? i’m not sure.
what made me think about it was that reading this post, i realised that it has been a month of more solitude than usual, and i wondered how the experience of fasting and focussing on spirituality would be when doing it in concert with others.
for next year, perhaps.
Tue Sep 18, 07:03:00 PM
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Maria Calvo said…
I called my local mosque and they told me I could drop by and break fast there if I wanted. I’m so gonna do this.
I’m not Muslim either hippie chick but I’m going to try and fast for a day just to say that I did! I’m a little scared, though because it seems so freaking difficult!
Maria
Thu Sep 20, 01:42:00 PM