Maha Mondays: Avoiding those you’ve bedded & initiating a virtual engagement

no-textElle Beaver: Do not text. Texting in such scenarios is for the kindergarten-heads. Call her, tell her you wish to see her to talk about why you have been avoiding her. Whatever you do, don’t pretend that you have not been avoiding her, because unless you are in the DRC without a proper internet connection, there is absolutely no reason why you have not been contacting her other than due to the catalyst: the sexuals”

Chai Latte Diaries: “…as per your worry that someone won’t find you x-y-z “enough”. You can not control how anyone sees you, nor should you manipulate who you are so that someone’s gaze upon you is affected. Not if you’re looking for a healthy union; rather, you need to be aware of who you are and present that (undoubtedly beautiful) woman at all times. The man who will love you will love you for all of who you are, not for what is missing or what he wishes to see altered.”