This one got folks riled up. Someone at Chai Latte Diaries asked me if he should ask her out again, a year after she said no. Me, I couldn’t see past his hostility, and I answered accordingly: “Buddy, the reason you’re reminded of her everyday and the reason she “infringes” on your thoughts is because you “can’t stop checking up on her” on Facebook. You know what that is? It is a form of stalking and I am happy that the only thing you have done with this behaviour is put up some passive aggressive (because of your simmering anger, I don’t imagine you are posting loving things. Sorry) posts on Facebook. Which, PLEASE STOP.”
Aside – it worries me that young women do not see a problem with his message.