Here, I advise you to keep things simple and clean. I very strongly encourage you to ask him what’s up because you are entitled to a response. If he tells you that the information which you have been given is false, and you believe him then move forward accordingly. If you don’t believe him, then follow your intuition in any way that makes you most comfortable.
If he tells you the information is correct and he is confused, then you still have to decide whether or not he is worth engaging platonically (not romantically; because: don’t be That Girl). If the reality proves to be this last case scenario but you find yourself making excuses for him, then I would counsel that you stop seeing him until he gets his crap sorted.
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