Thursday, June 11, 2009

Conversation snippet

"Part of the beauty of Vancouver is all of the greenery", said Maha.
"I agree! I think...I just LOVE the foilage in Vancouver. It's so great, isn't it?" said S.
"What?"
"I love the foilage here. It's gorgeous."
"And what colour would that foilage be?"
"What do you mean?"
"I mean...is it aluminum? Shiny silver, this foilage of which you speak."
"The foilage. The foilage. The green around us."
"It's foliage."
"Huh?"
"It's foliage. It's called foliage not foilage. I'm just bein' an asshole, really..."
"Oh! Ha ha!! FOLIage. That's right! FO-LEE-IDGE."
"You call yourself a writer. You should be ashamed."
"My word was nicer."

(I love you half of KAWN!)

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Tuesday, April 14, 2009

Not Lives of Girls and Women

I've just dined with Alice Munro. It was relatively quiet as I didn't say one word and instead let her letters slip off the page and create for me an alternate universe.

Every once in a while, I would be pulled from her pages by the loud voices of two late 20-something young women seated at the table next to me.

"I was with David Friday night."
"Whose David?"
"The guy I'm dating. He's why I couldn't see you Saturday. We spent Friday night together, went out for breakfast Saturday and rented movies and hung out with, like, his dog that night. It's what we do...but it's not a relationship. The sex is GREAT! And then there's Andrew."
"Whose Andrew?"
"The other guy I'm dating. He's perfect. He's a homeowner, he owns a vehicle and has an excellent job. He's tall, too, and the sex with him is GREAT also."

Pause. Check bberry. Look out window at protestors (Sri Lanka / tamil), and ask "who the fuck are they?"
"Who cares. They, like totally held up traffic last week. You're in Canada! God. Get over it, right?"

Pause. Check bberry, then continue
"Anyway. So like whatever happened to Mikey?"
"Sex with Mikey is even MORE awesome. I'm seeing him tonight."

Pause. Check bberry, then yell "WHAT!"
"Omg what's wrong?"
"READ!"
"Omg. Mikey has a girlfriend?"
"Yeah!"
"You're, like, The Other Woman. That's slammin' cool."
"And he's breaking up with her. Right. Now!"
"Awesomeness. You're a rockstar!"
"To the max, yo. I'm totally updating my FaceBook status to tell everyone about this...f*ck YEAH!!"

Droooooooone.
Focus on white tuna.
White noiiiiiiiiise.
Your daughters will not be like this.
Ugggggggggggh.
Tataki. Tataki. Tataki.
Huuuuuuuuuurrl.

I hate girls.
Also, I wish to run into the hills and hide.

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Monday, March 30, 2009

Snippet

Walking along Bloor on Saturday, I was approached by two young men, one of whom stopped in front of me and asked: "How are you today, ma'am."
I turned to look behind me in search of "ma'am", only to discover she was I.

"I'm well thanks. How are you?"
"I'm very good. If you have a moment, I'd like to tell you how The Book of Mormon brought me closer to Jesus Christ..."
"Actually. I'd love to hear about that - and then I'll share with you how The Quran brought me closer to Jesus Christ. Oh! We can share and compare. It'll be fun."
...blank stare, then: "Well, okay, you have a good day ma'am", and off trotted the two little Mormon boys in their black suits and black back-packs, so I sincerely asked "you don't want to share?", to which the other Mormon boy responded with "Is there anything else we can do for you today, ma'am?" as they continued on their way.
"No. I guess not. But maybe you could stop calling me ma'am...?"
"Good-bye, lady."
"Good-bye, young Mormon. Muslims love Jesus..."

Please feel free to consider me your own personal amuse-bouche.

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Tuesday, March 17, 2009

Conversations With Little People

"Hi, you've reached Cleo, Dane, Nora May & Trent. We can't take your call right now, so please leave a message and we'll get back to you as soon as possible. Thank you."

"Hey Cleo. It's Maha. I just got your email - I was out of town this weekend, but I'm home all week and would love to come by on Thursday night. I'll pick something up on the way over and we can watch Grey's..."

click

"Ello?"

"Hello Trenty."

"ELLO."

"How are you?"

"I GOO."

"Good! Me, too. What are you doing?"

"I PLAYEEN."

"How fun! Are you enjoying having mommy around over the holidays?"

"YEA."

click

"Hello? Who is this?"

"Hi Nora May. It's Maha."

"Oh. Hi Maha."

"Hi honey. How are you?"

"I'm good. We're playing."

"That's great. Is mommy around?"

"She's taken a shower. Please leave a message."

"Should I call back?"

"No, Maha. Please leave a message." (With the clear inflection that she thinks I must be a little slow in the head to ask such a foolish question.)

"Uhm. With you?"

"Yes please."

"Ok. Will you please tell her I called and that I will see her on Thursday."

"Yes, okay. Goodbye."

click

Kids amaze me.
I wish adults were as honest as them.

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Tuesday, November 18, 2008

On: Not speaking in either the past unreal conditional or the future unreal conditional (as present tense is best)

The following is a conversation I had with a friend on The Face; I have deleted her name for reasons of privacy. So as to facilitate your reading of this, please note that I am the one who begins this conversation.

Rather than writing about my feelings on the subject matter of how we are expected and scripted to react to certain situations, I thought that I would, for this once, allow you to understand my perspective through my idiotic blather quick witted communication skills familiar only to my closest friends.

Or, you could save yourself the trouble and merely deduce from the subject title of this entry.
Either way, enjoy...

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Thursday, August 21, 2008

Support and love from friends...

M: "Uhmmmm. HEY! So...uhm...I was wondering if you could help me figure something out, yeah?"
T: "Sure. What is it? I'm about to blowdry my hair, but ok..."
M: "Well. So...I was trying to figure out what this song was and I just. I can't."
T: "What've you got?"
M: "...."
T: "Maha?"
M: "Yeah!"
T: "What do you remember from the song?"
M: "...it's kind of lame..."
T: "SERIOUSLY. COME ON."
M: "Jungle night. Jungle bright. GimmeTheOthernaNananananaNAnanananaNaOhoohooohoohohohohohohohohohhohhhhhhh Night'sTheNight GimmeTheOtherGimmeTheOther...OR SOMETHING. I can't sing. You know that."
T: "Jesus that was bad. OH MY GOD WAIT! I KNOW IT!"
M: "Are you lying?"
T: "No...no...I know that ohohohohohohohohohohhhoohohohohohohoh"
M: "It's from the 80s I think? I think I was, like, ten years old or something...I've googled all kinds of different lyrics but nothing..."
T: "Yes! OH! I just heard it in the gym the other day...but I don't think it's jungle light. Try: 'in the night'."
M: "No, I don't think that's it."
T: "Just try it."
M: "K."
T: "Ohohohohohohohohohohohohoh Night'sTheNight.... I love that song."
M: "You didn't even know it before two seconds ago, dude."
T: "Still. It's awesome."
M: "Oh! I found it! OMG. It's called Tarzan Boy by some group called...Balteeemore-ah. This is so great, thank you! I'm gonna buy this right now...I'm so excited. You know what I love about iTunes? I love that it tells you what people who bought this song...what else they've also bought! I'm sure I'll find a lot of really great 80s son...oh wow...oh..."
T: "What?"
M: "Nothing. You should probably get to your hair."
T: "WHAT?"
M: ".........................no one else has ever bought this song."
T: "AAAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHHAAAAAAAAAAA."
M: "I'M A TRAILBLAZER. Go blow dry yer god damn hair, already."
T: "aaaaaahhhhhhhhhaaaaaaahhhhhh-tone.............."

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Friday, May 23, 2008

Conversation snippet

Maha: "Are you going to eat that lemon on your cola, 'cus if you're not, then can I have it?"
T: "GOD NO! I watched a show on lemons and they're completely covered in e.coli and disgusting bacteria and people pick them up and drop them in the washrooms and on floors and restaurants never wash them because they're covered in a peel! There are so many horrible diseases you can catch from lemons, it's amazing and really sort of UGH just gross and filthy I can't even see one without thinking about disease and it's almost touching my cola! GROSS!"

(pause)

Maha: "So. Uhm...are you going to eat that lemon, 'cus if you're not..."
T: "Just take the damn lemon, already."
Maha: "yay. shhh."

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Wednesday, January 02, 2008

One of life's great mysteries...

Does anyone know what a 'post doc' is? I'd never thought about it until New Year's Eve when the following conversation flowed around our table (performing a slow and quiet interpretive dance):

D: "...blablabla...working on their post doc."
Maha: "What is that, anyway?"
D: "What?"
Maha: "A 'post doc'?"
D: "Something to do with their PhD?"
P: "Isn't it work done post your doctorate?"

(silence)

Maha: "Do they get letters?"

(silence)

Maha: "You know, letters. Like, with their name? Like an 'M.A.' or a 'Dr'?"
P: "I don't think so, Maha..."
Maha: "Oh. Well. That sort of sucks; They really should consider at least giving them one extra letter. And if not, then they should make it a PhD2."

So...uhm...any of you know what a post doc amounts to? (I'm too floppy to Wiki as I've just come home from yoga.)

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Sunday, December 23, 2007

Conversations with little girls


This is Deema, my baby cousin aged 12. Last night, we had the following conversation that very nearly made me pee in my pants...

Deema: Maha, I need to ask you a question.
Maha: Okay, habibti, what is it?
D: It's personal, though?
M: Okay, go ahead - you should know that you can ask me anything you want to - there's nothing that's too personal.
D: Uhm. Okay. So. Uhm. Ahem - ahem.
M: Deema, just ask it.
D: Okay. WHEN DID YOU GET ARMPIT HAIR?
M: What?
D: Oh my GOD. SEE! It's too personal. I KNEW IT! Why are you laughing? Are you laughing at me?
M: NO! Nothing is too personal, and to answer your question, I was thirteen.
D: I'm almost 13! WHY DON'T I HAVE ANY? I WANT ARMPIT HAIR!
M: You'll get it when you get your period.
D: DUDE! Who said anything about my period? I'm talking about armpit hair!
M: Deema. It's all or nothing.
D: That's so gross. I just want my armpit hair.
M: Why do you want armpit hair, tayeb?
D: Because I want to start buying and using deodorant. I REALLY WANT TO BE ABLE TO BUY IT! I LOVE THE WAY IT SMELLS! AND I LOVE THE WAY YOU HAVE TO APPLY IT! (silence) My period, eh?
M: Yup.
D: Hmph. That seems really unfortunate. (and with full drawl of sarcasm) You know, I don't think it's very appropriate that you're laughing at me.
M: You have the most sarcastic sense of humor, ya Damdooma!
D: If I knew what that word meant: 'sarcastic', I'd offer you a reaction.
M: AAAAAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAAAA!
D: When you're done laughing, missy, come and find me in the living room. (muttering to herself) Crazy woman! - that's what happens when you get your period.

I took her 'shopping' for deodorant this morning. (I believe she's already used up half of it.)

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Monday, November 19, 2007

Dispatch no 2, Toronto: The Arrival

"Look outside, pretty lady! I*m standing directly across from no 8 price street! :)"

To which, in response, Baby Jane flew out of no 8 Price Street's doors and ran across the street without looking both ways. I'd barely had time to put my mobile back in my pocket, reapply the lip glass, and button my coat before a blur of blonde was running toward me.

She was as breathtaking then as she'd always been and it felt like coming home when I saw her smile, my Baby Jane.

By the time we'd made it up to her second floor office, we'd discussed her wardrobe crisis that morning, my new Crack, my flight, her new office digs and former boss.

Within 10 minutes of being in her office, the following ensued, which serves as the end of this Dispatch from Tee-Off.

"chatter chatter chatter"
"CHATTER CHATTER chatter chatter CHATTER"
"Chatter?"
"CHA. TTER!"
"xyz abc 123"
"chatter!"
"def 456 i like coffee."
"Wait, Maha, you're all over the place - wait - I have to finish this story. Chatter."
"...chatterchatterchatter...?"
"LOL!! OK, I forgot what I was saying! OH! CHATTER! CHATTER CHATTER!"
"abc."
"LOL!"
"LOL! Maybe I should go. I'm too excited! What if you can't do any work after I leave?"
"Maybe you should go - I'm turning into a Mexican Jumping Bean. There's too much energy. Do you like my wall?"
"I LOVE IT! MaybeIShouldGoMaybeI'llWalkAroundAndSeeWhere'sMuch?CanIShop?WhenShouldIBeBack?Where'sBonnie?WhoseMaryEllen?"
"Yes! OHMYGODIDon'tKnowIfI'llBeAbleToGetAnyWorkDoneNow. HoltzIsRightDownTheStreet. GoAndBuySTUFF. 5O'clockSharp. She'sStillAtLunch. MyMother."
"YourMother'sNameIsMaryEllen?"
"Yes."
"IAlwaysJustThoughtSheWasMUMWhoKnewSheHadAName."
"MEXICANJUMPINGBEAN! DoYouWantToGoOutTonight? OurNameIsOnTheListOfAReallyExclusiveClub."
"I'llDoAnything."
"Anything?"
"Anything!"

...and then I flew out of Janey's window and landed in Holt Renfrew.

Stay tuned for more Baby Jane & Mahi Mahi Dispatches from Tee-Off.

(Psst! I'll be blogging about Toronto in little pieces during the coming weeks because there's simply too much to tell in one stream...)

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Saturday, November 03, 2007

Conversations and such (Warning: Explicit)

You’re about to get insight into male-to-male conversations between brothers who love each other to death.

Disclaimer:: The following are some seriously crass quotes that are not the norm, but are funny and jaw-dropping enough that I really must post them. As all of my girls can attest, these young men don’t speak like this anywhere but when they’re together…

Disclaimer no 2: The following is by no means a fair representation of the boys. Remember that these are the same boys who, two nights back, made me a huge glass of freshly squeezed orange juice and filled it with honey because I was starting to get a scratchy throat. They came into my room and placed it on next to my bed and then woke me to tell me to drink it throughout the night before kissing me on the forehead and leaving.

Enjoy!

“Good morning.”
“Hey man.”
“Oh. Uhm…did I mention? My d*ck’s bigger than yours.”

“Dude. I’m totally gonna steal all of your wives.”
“I don’t plan on getting’ married.”
“That’s ‘cus you’re a little b*tch.”

“That girl’s SO hot.”
“She forgot to put her pants on.”
“I think she likes me, too, man. She winked at me when I opened the door.”
“She’s just being nice to a retard.”

“That’s bullsh*t, there’s no way you would’ve partied with Ragheb then. You would’ve been 13.”
“Dude. I’ve had fake I.D. since I was 13.”
“Whatever.”
“Major, I was 18 before you were 16, man.”
“Shut up”
“Ha ha. You’re such a little goodie-goodie. Go back to mama, man.”
“Shut up.”

“How can you not think Eva Mendes is hot?”
“She looks like a man.”
“She’s gorgeous.”
“That’s ‘cus you don’t know what a real woman looks like.”
“Shut up.”
“Dude. You wouldn’t know real p*ssy if it slapped you across the face.”

“I was thinkin’ about opening a t*tty bar. Is it haram? I mean, I’m not doing the stripping.”
“Well. There’s no surrah that says: ‘Thou shalt not open a t*tty bar’, but I’m pretty sure you can deduce that the answer is ‘Yea, it’s haram.”
“Damn. I was hoping I could get away on the technicality.”

Strange boys.

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Thursday, September 06, 2007

Men are from Mars and Some Women are from Stupid

In 32 years, I've only ever cared for one person. Well...maybe one and a half, the half not really counting because in hindsight it's easy to see that it was little more than a very fun and exciting fantasy holding no water.

A few girls invited me out after work one evening and they were blathering on about their "tricks" with men because apparently, "a woman has to play games to get what she wants". I am about to divulge some sisterhood secrets and I don't mind doing this because thankfully, it is not to this particular sisterhood I belong. Most of the women were in their late thirties and single, having jumped from one bed to another.

True gems of wisdom imparted were:
"...cry - you'll get anything!"
"...yell! You have to yell to show him whose boss!"
"...break up with him first. YOU HAVE TO BREAK UP WITH HIM FIRST!"
"...jealousy is par for the course with a man, make sure to always keep him on his toes and guessing that you have other men on your a** always."
"...hold his ex girlfriends against him!"
"...play with his emotions by being temperamental and unpredictable."
"...never make him think he's totally got you or he'll take you for granted."
"...f*ck his best friend when you break up. It'll kill him!"
"...needle his most vulnerable psychology!"
"...be a b*tch, it's what all men secretly want."
"...never pay for anything or he'll expect you to always do it."
...and my personal favourite was when one of the women decided to lecture me on that you should really get out there and date because that's what men are for. Women's lib! We fought for this!(1) And really who cares if you wait until marriage when there's so much variety to be had and look at me I'm a tramp and I love it been with more men than I can count on all fingers toes and appendages and it doesn't matter that I now wear a diaper because I have zero muscle drone drone drone.

As to this woman, to some it would seem odd that in thirty two years I would have only said "I love you" once. To those who think I am a freak of incredible proportion I'll have you know that the more I look around me the happier I am about this particular aspect of my life. And in fact, the more respect I have for myself. I believe there's something pure and honest about it. Having dealt with T's recent PIGLET! lying and cheating husband, I realize that my reality means I don't take either the words or the sentiment lightly and that stands for something; no one can ever claim that part of me has been diluted by over usage. More important still is that with every time we give ourselves away, we loose something. We become dulled, we become more cautious, we become less giving the next time. And...I...I wish to be able to give all of myself to someone someday without hesitation, trepidation or fear because of tangible things such as a past encounter. I don't think that's far-fetched or unattainable (I don't actually believe in that word, but think it's the ideal excuse for not working harder); Absolutely challenging and filled with hard work, but fully attainable nonetheless.

I like that: I won't ever be someone who does dilute everything in their lives. Who jumps from one relationship to another, never mourning, never understanding, never learning, never growing. I don't want to be with someone for the sake of being with someone, to avoid boredom. I don't want to further disrespect the man I will marry by giving so much of me away today that there'll be nothing left to give him tomorrow. I don't want to be the fool who doesn't know how to be alone. Who doesn't value their body or their heart and hands both out at random. I refuse to belittle everything that I am just so I have the occasional date on Friday night and so that I'm not lonely because I fully believe that if we don't know how to be alone and enjoy our own company, we won't know how to let someone else share in that very company. I also refuse to fit into some bizarre prototype of 'modern female' because I don't much like 'her'.

More importantly, I like boys. I don't want to be cruel to them or play games with them or disrespect them. When I am with someone, I don't want to yell at him or make him cry or harm his heart and I want to believe that everything earthly is possible.(2) Instead of aiming to do these things I'll hope to do the exact opposite to the best of my ability. Inevitably, at times I'll fail, but I'll have at least attempted to avoid that failure. I want to love him fairly and completely. Understand his history and psychology, alleviate his fears, reinforce my love for him and forgive his weaknesses as I would expect to have done for me. I also want to like him enough to hold his hand when we're 85. I think women underestimate their capacity to hurt men and that's an absolutely terrible thing. Simply because men may not discuss their feelings, it doesn't mean they don't have them. I wouldn't want someone to play games with me or yell at me or be mean to me and so why would I ever inflict that sort of thing on another individual? Especially if it's someone I love?

And if you believe that you can be a shit to your partner and yet don't deserve to be treated in the same manner, then you need a lot of therapy and a kick in the ass. There's nothing uglier than a spoiled brat, male or female.

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(1) We fought for 'this? For the freedom to f*ck? And here I thought we were fighting for equality and respect. How shameful and backward of me to accuse the feminist movement of anything short of complete and full pornification of the female and her many fruitful usages and bendy ways. Oh! And while I'm on it...thanks very much for providing me the opportunity to CHOOSE having my brea*ts sliced to obtain a more 'womanly' figure, my lips injected for a sexier pout, my eyebrows tattooed to shave off 10 minutes of 'getting ready' time in the a.m., my ribs broken for a smaller waistline and my face expressionless and poison filled so as to appear 'younger'. Because deep down, I don't think I can get anywhere on brains alone, I'd like to thank the modern day Miss. Interpretation of 'feminism' by the greater sisterhood allowing me to indulge these very exceptional and MY CHOICE! actions. These choices make me liberated, Hurrah!

Liberated enough to look down my new perfectly shaped "Jennifer Aniston" nose in order to mock the Muslim woman and her head gear - because heaven forbid she force the world to listen to her rather than stare BY CHOICE! at her. (3)

(2) Except the wanking PIGS! and Cheaters.

(3) Yes, there is a happy middle way, but not with the likes of the women who were the catalysts for this entry.

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Monday, July 23, 2007

Peanuts

I now understand why it is that I've loved The Gilmore Girls so much...

Snippet from a recent conversation in my life:
A: "That's how peanuts grow."
M: "Peanuts grow beneath?"
A: "Yeah, like potatoes."
M: "Oh."
A: "Where did you think peanuts came from?"
M: "..."
A: "They grow. It's a plant."
M: "..."
A: "Where'd you think..."
M: "I didn't."
A: "..."
M: "I thought they came in a can."
A: "But they would have to be grown before they were put into the can."
M: "They come from Mr. Planter."

Snippet from Season 7, The Gilmore Girls:
Lorelai: "It's like a peanut tree."
Rori: "Peanuts don't grow on trees, mom."
Lorelai: "What do you mean? It doesn't matter, anyway."
Rori: "Peanuts grow beneath the earth."
Lorelai: "Plants, trees, who cares, it's all the same to me. They're peanuts and we eat them and that's all that matters."

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