Find the first column at Elle Beaver, in response to: How Do I Satisfy My Personal and Physical Needs (Quickly)?
A snippet: In this same ‘being an adult’ vein, switch up your logic. Your kissing leads to banging rationale is the same logic my mother uses when talking about smoking the weed – that it will lead to needling your veins with crack-cocaine-heroin mixes. Seeking adult advice means being able to behave in adult ways and in this instance you are either slave to your body or master of it. Choose wisely, woman; choose wisely, Woman. (If you must, then also Google with your elbows: “anatomy of the road between a kiss and sex”.)