I was asked: ‘Tell me about Ramadan’


And I responded with a variation of the following. Because I talk too much.

‘Ramadan’ is the name of the month (like October or November) and the Muslim calendar, like the Jewish one, is lunar. As such, and unlike the Gregorian calendar, the dates are never solids, but rather shifting, so the beginning of Ramadan precedes the last year’s beginning day by 11 – 15 days.

In Islam, there are 5 pillars of faith, of which fasting during the month of Ramadan is one.

In many other religions, fasting is usually associated with the intention of self-mortification in order to bring about the freeing of one’s soul. This is not the case in Islam; because we replenish in the evenings, the discomfort – and that is really all it is – is minimal and without the intention of physical long-term stress or trauma to the body. Those fasting do no eat, smoke, drink (not even water or gum) from sunrise until sunset. Also during the sunny hours, there is no sexing to be had. Exempt from fasting are the ill, those who are on any form of medication, nursing mommas and menstruating women.

Fasting is the only one item of the 5 pillars for which God did not give a clear “why.” So, we are free to reflect on the why ourselves; among the possibilities are that fasting intends to:

(a) Hone one’s self discipline (fasting is no easy matter – but at the end of the 29 or 30 days, you wake up and think: I can do *anything*) and self-control. Practicing endurance and generating more self confidence, patience and determination in the face of a very difficult task. Essentially reaffirming that one is master over their body, rather than slave to it.

(b) Remind us that it is a *luxury* to walk to the sink and grab a glass of water when we’re thirsty. That it is a blessing to feel hungry and run out and grab a burger or a pizza or a fruit, etc. When we consider the levels of poverty and death from starvation that occur at a sick rate on an hourly basis – this understanding is unmatched and critical in a day when apathy seems rampant.

(c) Force us into a time of self-reflection and awareness. A part of the process is to take stock of one’s last 12 months; to remind oneself of their personal running list of actions / behaviours with which we are not entirely comfortable, situations in which we could have been kinder. [Personally, I try to remedy where I can, take note and change where I can not, and ultimately take the coming year to remove influences which I believe aren’t too healthy (emotionally, physically and spiritually)].

(d) Cleanse and reboot our physiology, as illustrated by the lovely Dr. Noreen K.

Pillar #2: Declaration that there are no gods but God (and that his final prophet is Muhammad)

Implicit in this are that Muslims must also believe:

– in absolutely all prior Prophets beginning at Adam, through to Abraham, Moses, Noah, Jesus (peace be upon them), etc.,
– in over 250,000 Prophets whose names have been lost over time, and culminating in the reality that
– this (to me) is God’s way of asking Muslims to respect all faith traditions, no matter from whom they came as they may be among those whose names have been lost

Pillar #3: Paying an annual tax of 2.5% on your unused assets

This is NOT payable to the Mosque / Masjid.
This is NOT only payable to Muslims.

To whom you pay is based on your individual choice alone with one clear stipulation — that it is preferrable to take care of orphans.

Me, I have a couple of orphans who I have taken care of for years. I also donate to Carleton’s center for the study on Islam, to environmental organizations, to the Ottawa mission for men, to the war amps, to UNRWA, to relief organizations during the year and as needed, and to cancer research.

While I work hard to earn my money, I recognize that: (1) I am blessed to be able to donate freely and without feeling pinched; (2) it is ultimately not mine; and, (3) I believe that this tax is a way to purify the money to the best of my ability. Because every penny has come at the cost of someone in our society where profit > people.

Look, I get it. We’re not mining and trading blood diamonds. But everything in this world is connected in one way or another, and so at some point, my money is drenched in someone’s blood. This tax for me is a form of purification and it is all I can do specific to this particular pillar of Faith.

Pillar #4: Prayer five times a day because like yogis, Muslims know what’s up.

Pillar #5: Performing Hajj once in your lifetime if you are able and have the money.

Where one has neither, then the *intent* to perform Hajj is considered enough before God.

(The above are not to be confused with the 5 articles of Islam, in which a Muslim must believe, and are: (1) Belief in God (obviously); (2) Belief in Judgement Day; (3) Belief in the books of revelation (Torah, Bible & Qur’an); (4) Belief in God’s archangels (Gabriel, Azrael, Michael); and (5) Belief in the messengers (Prophets).)


May your month be a blessed one, Muslim or otherwise xxo


Thank you to Even Angels Ask by Dr. Jeffrey Lang — a scientist by trade — for this best and most suited description. This is a must-read for any “Westerner” attempting to understand Islam, or curious to get to the heart of this religion. Lang bares his soul in this in a way that most authors are never brave enough to do…as a sister to this man in Islam, he touches my heart in ways unimaginable.